Spring Chaos Arrives To The Family: Blowing Losses and Gains

Spring Chaos is Coming- And So is Our Trip!

Spring break is just around the corner! We are taking the family to North Carolina! We have never take trips like this for spring break. So while we thought it was a blessing to do this, we quickly found out it was stressful! First came Chaos, then came spring break. Then the stress of figuring out how to balance it all! Before we head on our road trip we will be doing a Mom and Dad getaway. Every year my husband and I go to a festival in Tampa.

This little overnight is such a well needed time for him and I. We have really created a bond over it. Its has made us love music together all while sharing some fun and laughs. I love it because we get to relax and just vibe out. And really just enjoy music and good food together. Since I love reggae music so much it has made us closer and deeper in connection. Our bond and love for this trip is a staple in our yearly concert activity. Being from Belize I grew up with this vibe and I love that he also enjoys it as well. Balancing compromise is so important.

A Trip in the Midst of Chaos and Balance

This past Monday my husband lost his job. It was a brutal punch to the gut. He was not expecting it at all. Seeing him sad really affected me. I wanted to make sure that I was there for him as much as possible. Strength in that instant came to me had to remember the children. I had to balance that pain and news at the same time. He is the breadwinner in this house. He was so good at his job. He has always been a strong leader. Has shown great progress wherever he goes. And even after he was laid off his legacy and work will continue.

He is now working on his journey to finding what he wants. And I’m so proud of him for the actions he has taken to swiftly take care of us. Balancing fun and financial reality is not for the weak. We are all adjusting but making sure that our family is making space for joy. We want to carry the kids through this without fear. This road we have been down before and we will be successful again.

Spring Break To-do List: What are we packing? Plans?

With all this hectic chaos happening and spring break is literally Friday!!! I have not washed all the clothes, decided what I need to pack! I don’t even know what the weather will be like there! Luckily months ahead I had ordered our outfits for our festival so that is one less thing to worry about. I need to balance it all and to get it together. If anyone has any tips for last minute planning I would love some ideaa! I seem to get in this predicament a lot.

Besides all that mess of life, I am looking ahead to quality time as a family. He planned it. He made sure that we would be in a fun place. This effort is much to be celebrated. It will be great. My wonderful in-laws will help take care of our little fur babies. They will also take care of the reptile and the fish! Yes I have zoo at this point! And No I am not happy about it! In the end what is a mother to do? Say no? Easy for you to say!

A Special Milestone: Nyah’s Graduation

My eldest Nyah will be graduating 8th grade this May. She is in all the feels of a young teenager. Nervous, scared, excited and all of the above that are all normal. First, try explaining that to a teenager. Good luck! Second, I feel like it was just yesterday that we brought her home from the hospital. Or remembering her on the kitchen counter as she sat in her Tinkerbell costume. Thirdly, the way she use to wait for me at the door when I use to come home from work. Her silly little giggles. And finally, I just can’t believe how grown up she is. Turning 15 this year, graduating and just moving on. Time has truly flown by and It’s bittersweet.

I am beyond proud of the young lady we have raised. How well she has balanced all of this mess. We did a great job! I can’t wait to see what the future holds for her. I know that she is destined to do great things. She is the most passionate and caring kid. Excuse me, Young Lady!! My first baby, we learned it all together and continue to do so. Like I do with my mom, and Its a bond that can’t be explained. But a puzzle I will always solve for her no matter what life throws at us!

Finding Balance In Uncertain Times

Again, as I juggle life’s ups and downs I take a little time to ponder on how blessed I am. Even in the midst of this chaos. And I can truly say I am lucky to have my children and even my husband by my side. We have been through a lot in this family. The thing that keeps us together is knowing that we LOVE each other. That life is not perfect, nor are people. You find a balance and remember that light can shine through even in the darkest times. Eventually We will find our way to what we were destined to do.

And while times are challenging now. We always have made a great team. Pursuing this positive path can only mean that we too can show our children, how family is so important. Although things get tough and times seem hard. Family is all about love and understanding and support.